Paper vs. Digital: Cost & Format Comparison
Wedding Invitation Wording: Complete Examples by Section
"What should I write on my wedding invitation?" is one of the most searched wedding questions online. The design comes together quickly, but the wording takes 2–3x longer on average. 89% of guests expect a digital RSVP, and only 76% of guests who say "Yes" actually attend. The right wording shapes not just first impressions, but attendance too. You want something personal, but worry it might feel too casual for older guests or your parents' crowd.
We've gathered sample wording for every section of a wedding invitation. Use them as-is, or tweak them to make them your own.
Paper vs. Digital: Cost & Format Comparison
Deciding on format before choosing wording makes it easier to set the right tone.
Over 70% of couples go hybrid. Send paper to older relatives and family, digital to friends and coworkers — the best of both formality and convenience.
Cover Text
The cover is the first impression of the entire invitation. If you're not sure what tone to open with, start with an English cover paired with a body in your native language.
Main Text
This is the bold, single line on the front of your invitation. Choose from English, bilingual, or whatever style speaks to you.
An English cover paired with body text in your native language is the most popular combination.
Sub Text
The secondary line that sits just below the main text.
Invitation Body
The body is the part guests spend the most time reading. Pick one phrase from each section in order, from the opening line to the closing thank-you, and the flow comes together naturally.
Opening Line
A short introductory phrase that appears at the very top of the body, just before the main greeting.
Invitation Message
The heart of your invitation. This is where the tone and mood are set.
For digital invitations, 3–4 lines is the sweet spot for readability.
Our Story
A section to share how the two of you came to be. It's optional, but it gives your invitation a personal touch that makes it truly one-of-a-kind.
Thank-You Message
A closing message of gratitude to your guests, placed at the end of the body.
Additional Details
These sections may look optional, but skip them and you'll get a flood of questions from guests on the day. Dining, parking, and RSVP alone will cut most of the on-site confusion.
Dining Information
Whether it's a buffet or course meal, and depending on meal times, the wording changes. Pick the phrase that fits your situation.
Parking Information
Availability, free parking hours, and valet service all affect the wording. Choose based on your venue's parking situation.
Dress Code
An optional section for communicating your dress code.
Wedding Favors
The wording differs based on gift type. Choose accordingly, whether guests pick up on-site or receive delivery.
Special Notes
Use this section for anything else you need to communicate, such as no-floral-arrangement requests or outdoor ceremony details.
RSVP
Uncertain headcounts affect catering and seating. Only 76% of guests who RSVP "Yes" actually attend. Include a clear RSVP deadline, and send a reminder 2 weeks before the wedding — your final headcount will be far more accurate.
Adding RSVP instructions to your invitation lets you confirm the final guest count much earlier. Choose a polite, friendly wording option below.
Invitation Checklist: What to Include
Making sure nothing important is missing is just as important as the wording itself.
Rather than placing the registry link immediately below the greeting, it's more natural to put it in a separate tab or a "Gifts" section of its own.
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"What should I write on my wedding invitation?" is one of the most searched wedding questions online. The design comes together quickly, but the wording takes 2–3x longer on average. 89% of guests expect a digital RSVP, and only 76% of guests who say "Yes" actually attend. The right wording shapes not just first impressions, but attendance too. You want something personal, but worry it might feel too casual for older guests or your parents' crowd.
We've gathered sample wording for every section of a wedding invitation. Use them as-is, or tweak them to make them your own.
Paper vs. Digital: Cost & Format Comparison
Deciding on format before choosing wording makes it easier to set the right tone.
Over 70% of couples go hybrid. Send paper to older relatives and family, digital to friends and coworkers — the best of both formality and convenience.
Cover Text
The cover is the first impression of the entire invitation. If you're not sure what tone to open with, start with an English cover paired with a body in your native language.
Main Text
This is the bold, single line on the front of your invitation. Choose from English, bilingual, or whatever style speaks to you.
An English cover paired with body text in your native language is the most popular combination.
Sub Text
The secondary line that sits just below the main text.
Invitation Body
The body is the part guests spend the most time reading. Pick one phrase from each section in order, from the opening line to the closing thank-you, and the flow comes together naturally.
Opening Line
A short introductory phrase that appears at the very top of the body, just before the main greeting.
Invitation Message
The heart of your invitation. This is where the tone and mood are set.
For digital invitations, 3–4 lines is the sweet spot for readability.
Our Story
A section to share how the two of you came to be. It's optional, but it gives your invitation a personal touch that makes it truly one-of-a-kind.
Thank-You Message
A closing message of gratitude to your guests, placed at the end of the body.
Additional Details
These sections may look optional, but skip them and you'll get a flood of questions from guests on the day. Dining, parking, and RSVP alone will cut most of the on-site confusion.
Dining Information
Whether it's a buffet or course meal, and depending on meal times, the wording changes. Pick the phrase that fits your situation.
Parking Information
Availability, free parking hours, and valet service all affect the wording. Choose based on your venue's parking situation.
Dress Code
An optional section for communicating your dress code.
Wedding Favors
The wording differs based on gift type. Choose accordingly, whether guests pick up on-site or receive delivery.
Special Notes
Use this section for anything else you need to communicate, such as no-floral-arrangement requests or outdoor ceremony details.
RSVP
Uncertain headcounts affect catering and seating. Only 76% of guests who RSVP "Yes" actually attend. Include a clear RSVP deadline, and send a reminder 2 weeks before the wedding — your final headcount will be far more accurate.
Adding RSVP instructions to your invitation lets you confirm the final guest count much earlier. Choose a polite, friendly wording option below.
Invitation Checklist: What to Include
Making sure nothing important is missing is just as important as the wording itself.
Rather than placing the registry link immediately below the greeting, it's more natural to put it in a separate tab or a "Gifts" section of its own.
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