Deciding how you'll read your vows makes writing them much easier.

Format	How It Works	Best For
Alternating	Read one line at a time, taking turns	It's ideal for couples who want a unified feel, and it's the most popular format.
Reading Together	Start and end together, individual parts in the middle	It works well when you want to blend the "we" and "I" voices together.
Individual Vows	Each person reads their own	It suits couples who have a lot to say, and it's especially moving at intimate ceremonies.

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Follow This Formula

Your vows only need three things. Follow this order and it flows naturally.

One Episode

One memory that only the two of you share. It doesn't need to be grand.

"The first time we met, you put three pumps of syrup in your latte. That's when I knew you were the one."

"That rainy day we shared one umbrella and ran together, your face laughing while soaking wet is still vivid in my mind."

One Promise

A specific promise is more touching than "I'll love you forever."

"No matter how angry we get, I promise we'll make up before we fall asleep."

"Once a week, we'll hold hands, walk through the neighborhood, and talk about us."

"Every anniversary, I'll remember the excitement of today, and we'll write letters to each other."

One Line of Gratitude

End with a short, heartfelt thank-you.

"Thank you for choosing to be by my side."

"Because of you, I've become a better person."

Want to add humor? Keep it to 1-2 jokes in the promise section. Something like: "I promise to always say your cooking is delicious, even if you swap the salt and sugar." Too many jokes undercut the sincerity.

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Complete Vow Examples

Short Version (20–30 sec, ~80–120 words)

From the first time you smiled at me until now, you've made me so much better. I hope we keep doing that for each other. I love you.

Medium Version (50–60 sec, ~150–250 words)

I want to make you a promise today, standing here with you.

I still remember the first thing you said to me the day we met. From that moment, I wanted to be by your side. That feeling hasn't changed at all.

No matter how angry I get, I promise we'll make up before we sleep. When you're having a hard day, I'll be the one who notices first. And every year on this day, let's remember this feeling together.

Thank you for choosing to be with me.

Long Version (70–90 sec, ~250–350 words)

When I first met you, honestly, I had no idea it would come to this. I just thought: here's a good person. But as the time we spent together added up, I realized I couldn't do without you.

Because of you, I've become a better person. Things I would have walked right past on my own, I've been able to feel because you were there with me.

Starting today, here's what I promise. I'll ask if you slept well every morning. I won't go to bed angry. Once a week, I'll walk somewhere with you, hand in hand. And when you look like you're struggling, I'll be the first to hold you. These are small things, but they're the most genuine promises I can make.

I will be on your side for the rest of my life. I love you.

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Check These Before You Write

Length

Around 1 minute (150-250 words) is ideal. Too long and you risk crying or your voice shaking so much you can't finish.

Length	Time	Character Count	When
Short	20-30 sec	80-120	It's a good choice for hotel ceremonies or if you're worried about crying.
Normal	50-60 sec	150-250	It suits most weddings comfortably.
Long	70-90 sec	250-350	It works especially well at small, intimate ceremonies.

Just coordinate length with your partner. You can keep the content secret, but agree on "both about 1 minute." If one person goes 3 minutes and the other 20 seconds, it's awkward.

What to Include

A shared episode only you two know, a specific promise, gratitude, 1-2 jokes

What to Leave Out

Past relationships (exes), stories about almost breaking up, inside jokes guests won't get, overly long tangents

What If You Cry

Have a handkerchief ready and tell the MC in advance: "If I start crying during the vows, please give me about 10 seconds."

It's okay to cry. Guests are actually more moved when it happens. Sincerity matters more than a flawless reading.

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Rehearsal

Once you've written your vows, read them aloud 3 times. In Pudding, you can assign speakers to each block so the groom/bride voices switch automatically, letting you experience the real ceremony feel in advance.

- Choose your format (alternating / together / individual)
- Agree on length with your partner
- Confirm you have 1 episode + 1 promise + 1 line of gratitude
- Read aloud 3 times
- Tell the MC "if I cry, please wait"
- Prepare a printed copy + handkerchief for the day

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